Help! I Don’t Know How To Connect With God

A significant part of my testimony is that I went to church for years and tried to do the “church thing” but deep down I was struggling because I honestly did not know how to connect with God. It is a really hard thing to admit, especially if you’re already attending church, reading the bible and even leading bible studies! For me personally I couldn’t take it any more and I turned away from it all. I stopped going to church, reading the bible and walked away from all religious organizations I was connected with.

It wasn’t until I hit rock bottom and finally cried to God in my car one day and begged him to become real to me that I truly began a real relationship with Him. And that my friend is the place to start to connect with God and have an intimate relationship with him. We must be desperate for him.

Scripture tells us to, “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” (Psalm 37:4 & Psalm 37: 7) and for us to “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him”

We need to simply be still and sit in the Lord’s presence, with no one else around, just you and him. No matter if it’s in your car, porch, living room, or closet, find that secret place to get away with him. I promise you dear friend that he will show up and you will begin a personal intimate relationship with him.

I love hearing from you! Leave a comment below or email me at linda@lindakuhar.com.

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Linda Kuhar coaches women around the globe in building stronger intimate relationships with Christ. As your Christian Life Coach I will empower you to dig deeper than ever before in your relationship with Christ. We have all asked ourselves: “How can I really hear from God?” or “What’s God’s plan for my life?” but struggle to confidently find the answers. During our coaching sessions you will learn how to push through resistance, doubts, fears and uncertainty and immediately begin to move forward. A new life in Christ awaits. Click here to be placed on new client waiting list. 

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This week I’ve been listening to this on repeat. I love Kim Walker-Smith’s Throne Room.

Hearing God


Our minds are a very powerful tool. It is critical to discern the difference between the voices we are hearing in our mind. Is it our voice, God’s voice, or the enemy’s voice we are listening to? In Romans 12:2 it says to be transformed by the renewing of your mind, then you will know God’s good and perfect will for your life. So how do we do that? The first thing the we must do is to take note of what you are putting into your mind. What are you listening to, looking at and reading? What are you letting into your mind? It is important to intentionally put the good things into your mind, to put God’s voice into your mind.

So what is God’s voice? We know in black and white that it is His word, the bible. And that is why it is so important to read the bible every single day. It doesn’t matter how much you read, you can simply meditate on just one verse. What do I mean by mediating? Mediating means to read it, to speak it, to sit and think on it over and over.

The verse I’ve been meditating on recently is Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him and he will make your paths straight.” So what I do is take that verse and rewrite it, I read it, I speak it, I put it on my phone wallpaper, I share it all over social media … I make sure that it is everywhere so that it is at the front of my mind. In the weeks ahead I will share more with you about reseting your mindset. One book that I recommend everyone to read is Joyce Meyer’s The Battlefield of the Mind.

Please email me at linda@lindakuhar.com or comment below and let me know any questions you might have on hearing God’s voice. I’d love to hear from you! CLICK HERE to subscribe to my blog for future inspiration and exciting giveaways and receive Chapter 1 of my book Worthy of a Miracle.

Linda Kuhar coaches women around the globe in building stronger intimate relationships with Christ. As your Christian Life Coach I will empower you to dig deeper than ever before in your relationship with Christ. We have all asked ourselves: “How can I really hear from God?” or “What’s God’s plan for my life?” but struggle to confidently find the answers. During our coaching sessions you will learn how to push through resistance, doubts, fears and uncertainty and immediately begin to move forward. A new life in Christ awaits. Click here to be placed on new client waiting list.

What clients are saying about working with Linda Kuhar …

“I am beyond thankful that God led me to find Linda. I considered myself a Christian before and I had salvation, but definitely no joy or victory. I really was hoping she would just tell me what I needed to do and not suggest I pray or read because I felt like I couldn’t hear his voice or understand. Thankfully she did have me do those things that I didn’t really want to do. At first I followed her suggestions because I knew she was going to hold me accountable and because I really wanted change. Over the weeks things began to shift. Things are so different now and weights have been lifted! I can say that I do hear the Lord’s voice and am so in love with Him. This would not have happened without Linda’s support and guidance. She makes it so easy to open up and be vulnerable and honest. I am thankful for her willingness to be used as a vessel. If you are feeling like you need a change I highly recommend Linda!!” Melissa P., VA

“I was led to reach out to Linda after I stumbled across her website. She has been one of the kindest, most warm hearted Christian women I have ever spoken to. She helped me through some tough times in my marriage and I know with her guidance, and of course, God’s loving grace, I am on the path to a stronger bond with my husband. I would recommend her to anyone!” Christianne M., PA

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